Staying Cool when the Heat is on!
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The leader’s true colors will
come through in unguarded moments and in spontaneous reactions to unexpected
events.
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Sometimes by moving too
quickly, you open a Pandora’s Box of problems that were not present before the
changes imposed by your snap decisions. This is very important to
understand. These are called the “unintended consequences” of decisions,
and at times, the aftermath of your decisions can be worse than the initial
problem you tried to solve.
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Leaders must remain cool and
level headed at all times. Nothing gives one so much advantage over another as
to remain cool and unruffled under all circumstances. Temper tantrums,
snap decisions, finger pointing, yelling and blaming are all signs of
panic. Good CEO s don’t panic. They don’t throw tantrums.
They keep themselves in control so that they can keep control of the
situation. Do not get angry, even if anger is justified. Tell
yourself, force yourself, to stay calm, cool and collected. Do not be
rash.
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Be careful to not be seen as
overly directive, dogmatic or demanding. Check your ego. It’s critical
that you appear approachable and open to new ideas. There is a very fine
line between getting things moving and overwhelming the company. You must
be active without being perceived as going off in all directions, wreaking
havoc at every turn.
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People are curious about the
new leader’s judgement, value, strategy, energy, style, etc. They
will be watching you very closely to pick up any signs at all. You
send signals through all of your small decisions, actions, interactions,
emails, tone of your meetings, etc.
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It is crucial to set the right
pace; if there is too little momentum, the leader can accelerate the pace by
inaugurating new initiatives or changing key players. Conversely, he also must
ensure that things don’t get too crazy, too soon.
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It’s very easy to get into
trouble by appearing impulsive and making moves without thinking through all of
the potential implications of your decisions.
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If you can make the jobs of
others a lot of fun, they will work harder and more creatively and feel more
satisfied with their careers and lives. The Leader who is able to maintain a
sense of humor and to lighten the mental load of his colleagues will always
have a motivated, happy team. A sense of humor is a mark of intelligence
and is a quality that is desired in corporate presidents.
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Don’t come in with the solution
or claim that you have all the answers, even if you do. Be slow and deliberate
in structuring solutions and remember to carefully think about the unintended consequences
of your decisions.
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A need to appear decisive can
cause you trouble. Some new leaders believe that they must prove themselves by
projecting a confident, take-charge attitude. The danger with this is
that the Leader may appear too swift and irrational, lacking the critical
leadership element of patience and calm in the face of a stressful
situation.
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Leaders must be decisive, but
"patiently decisive" and not jump at the first recommendation for a
decision. They should listen to all
sides before deciding. In fact, on occasion, its good practice for a Leader to
postpone an important decision for a day or two, or even a week or two, while
collecting additional information. Leaders must be comfortable
soliciting contrasting views, and if possible, to sleep on important issues.
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Listening is the most important
skill for leaders. If a leader is a good listener, he can accept ideas,
criticism and other feedback that can improve the company.
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You want people to say, “Wow,
he’s decisive, but he just hasn’t made his mind up yet.” You see, you want
people to see that you are decisive on the matters where you can afford to
be. But on the much larger issues, you need the decisive reputation to
carry you for a while in order to buy yourself some time to really evaluate the
problem.
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New leaders get into big
trouble when they believe that they must appear decisive and establish a
directive tone. If the leader is seen as dealing superficially with deep
problems, the resulting cynicism makes it difficult to rally support for change
because people may not trust him.
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It is the mature leader who
accepts even unfair criticism with equanimity, calmness and grace. Criticism
can provide the very useful “reality check” that all leaders need in order to
maintain perspective. Leaders must be brutally honest with themselves or
they will slip into the terrible habit of self-deception. Even the best
leaders make mistakes. By listening to criticism and quickly catching,
acknowledging, and correcting mistakes, good leaders can become superb leaders.
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Regarding decision making: Although
there may appear to be some urgency involved and you do not want to appear
indecisive, exercise extreme caution and patience. In many cases, a fast
decision leads to bad results that will come back to haunt you.
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At first, you will lack the
insider’s detailed knowledge of the company, its people, structure and systems,
its policies and culture. Therefore you must take the time to understand it
before you make any key decisions or moves.
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True Leaders can maintain a
calm, internal confidence because they have worked hard, prepared for the tough
moments, and have built on the successes of the past. In fact, Leaders must
appear confident at all times, especially when the pressure is on.